Thursday, 29 July 2010

"I can't wait for the weekend to begin"



Since being back at Uni, I have a new found appreciation for the Weekend. Especially considering my Weekend consists merely of Saturday, due to working on a Sunday. Here are the Top Five things I will be doing this Weekend. What are you all doing this weekend?



5. Having Blueberry Hotcakes for Breakfast. Are you jealous? Are you?!








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4. Watching Friday Night Television - ANTM & Glee - Holla! The perfect way to wind down and relax. Plus Quinn gives birth in tonight's Episode (Season Finale?) of Glee. Cue the tissues.






 Image Courtesy of Fox.com





3. Attending the Mexican themed 21st Birthday Party of Hayley Marsh. Throw a
Theme at me - and I am in. Especially when it involves donning a
costume of some sort. Also I love 21st Birthdays, and I love Hayley. Win
- Win.






 Image shamelessly stolen from Facebook.







2. Catching up with Erica & Josh for a fuss-free Fish'n'Chip Dinner. This also means I will get to see my Beautiful little cookie crumb a.k.a My God-Daughter. It's been tooooo long.









1. Spending time with my Boo. One day a week is just not enough. X






Thursday, 22 July 2010

"Why is it that at a bachelor's establishment the servants invariably drink the champagne?"



I haven't been drinking Alcohol much lately, for a few reasons. Money is one. Moral Support is another. But mainly I just haven't really felt like it. I'm not a huge drinker anyway.

Here are my Top Five Non-Alcoholic Drinks.



5. Raspberry & Lemonade - A Pub Classic! I've been throwing back these ad boys since I was Seven. Erica & I still order them now. Long Live the R&L!




4. 'Traffic Light' - Another Pub Classic. Every time Brad makes us dine at Cobb & Co I order a 'Traffic Light'. I don't even care that it is on the "kid's menu". Not one bit.



3. Mac's Brewery, 'Sparkling Sour Apple' - This is' Non-Alcoholic Perfection. It tastes like Tangy Apple's. If you haven't tried it yet - go to the supermarket right now and get some.




2. Bundaberg Drinks, 'Ginger Beer', 'Lemon Lime & Bitters' & 'Peachee' - I love all of these very different flavours. They all, however, remind me of Summer. Not many people have tried the 'Peachee', let me tell you, if you're a fan of the other two you should definitely check it out.






1. Sun Country Sparkling White Grape Juice - Who doesn't love this beverage? We would have it every Christmas, or Birthday Dinner when I was young. I still love it, that hasn't changed. What has changed, is the frequency at which I consume it.





What are your favourites? Come on Ange & Mariah I know you've got some Beaut's to share!


Wednesday, 21 July 2010

"200 Cigarettes"



Dear Smokers-of-the-rude-variety,



Just because you choose to smoke, that doesn't give you the right to force others to be a part of your habit. Please could you at least stop Smoking in "No-Smoking" areas? My main areas of concern are, right outside the main entrance to Wellington Hospital & all through the Wellington Train Station. Also, If you could manage it, could you please refrain from blowing that disgusting smoke in my face as you walk down Lambton Quay and whilst standing in close proximity to others when lining up to get on a Bus?

I know that it's hard for you to understand where I am coming from, because you are so ignorant that you don't even think about the other people your decision affects. Really I do sympathise - you should probably see a Doctor about that.  But, until then could you at least consider not smoking around Children and Pregnant Women. It's rude, It's disgusting and I've had enough of having to deal with your foul habit.



Cheers,

Nicole



P.S Your clothes, hands & hair smell like an ashtray. I thought you might want to know







Please note that this letter is only aimed at Smokers who are in fact rude. If you keep your personal choices to yourself - then that's up to you. I respect that you have the right to make that decision, and appreciate that you spare my lungs.





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"I'll never be hungry again."

Last Thursday night after Dinner, I cleaned up the kitchen and did the dishes. The bench was spotless.

Many would guess that I would be, a little miffed when I got up at 4.30am to go to the Bathroom, when I saw this on my way through...









But I wasn't angry. I found it funny. The culprit? The Midnight Muncher is in our presence. Yet again.








                              





That's right the Infamous Midnight Muncher is in fact my Mother! *Gasp.





She's having Chemo weekly now. It makes her hungry. At all hours.








Tuesday, 20 July 2010

"Go Shorty - it's Your Birthday"

I have been quite busy lately, with going back to Uni and all. So busy that I haven't had much time to post. Today I locked my coat inside Brad's car, dropped my notebook in a puddle, missed my bus, the next bus missed the connecting train and that would make me miss my lecture. On top of that an appointment I had was postponed until Monday. So I got on another bus and came home. Although I do have work to do even though I am home - I will give In My Shoes a little Love first.



A little over a week ago it was my Sister's Birthday. She turned Nineteen. The last teenage year - how exciting. The day before her Birthday, Brad & I took her shopping.

She bought two gorgeous evening bags and a Polka-Dot shirt with the money we gave her. (See, Kelsey & I are more alike than you make know.)



Kels went out on the town with some Girlfriends that night.



On Sunday Mum, her Husband Darren & I drove to Kilbirnie to pick Kelsey up, and drive her in to town, where we were meeting for lunch.

We had txt her an hour before our arrival - yet when I knocked on the door, she opened it in a towel fresh out of the shower. She said "Umm I'm not quite ready." No kidding.

Once she was ready, we jumped in the car, slapped some make-up on and zoomed down to the Wellington waterfront.

We had a Family lunch at Mac's Brewery to celebrate. It was really nice - the food, the company, the love, all of it. It really was a wonderful afternoon.




 


The Cake I made - at 10.30pm the night before the party.












Aunty Deb, Cam & Uncle Paul







Mum & Darren









Gina, Courtney, Farja & the Birthday Girl.





 


Kels & I - being Silly












Blowing out all Nineteen Candles.





Happy Birthday Sissy. 


Enjoy your last year of being a teenager.


I am so lucky that God, Destiny or Fate granted me with the honour of being your Sister. 


Love you.


XXX

"Love is Strange"

Last night on our way home from a celebratory dinner, Brad & I had the following conversation.





Brad: "I thought she lived in Sydney? Why is she working there?"



Me: "She's been back since the beginning of the year. She's studying Law at Vic."



Brad: "I would never have guessed that she would be keen on studying Law."



Me: "Well obvisouly she is. People used to say when I was younger that I would grow up to be a Lawyer."



Brad: "Well you are VERY good at arguing Honey."







(Awkward Silence)









Me: "....Aah, is that a compliment or are you having a go?"



Brad: "All i'm saying is that I can't fight with you. You make me think about things differently. It ruins my argument. I just can't do it like you do. Aaaand you win so much that sometimes I just give up."





Me: "What?! Are you saying that I think I'm always right and fight so well that it forces you to just GIVE UP? That's not nice."



Brad: "No. No, no, no. Even when you're wrong you argue a point way too well."





Me: "Great."





(Awkward Silence)







Brad: "Also, you wouldn't have made a good Lawyer.."







(Awkward Silence)







Brad: "....You care too much about the truth."

Thursday, 15 July 2010

"And I'm BACK IN THE GAME! "

I started back at Uni this week - after taking a Trimester off. These are the Top Five Highlights of my week...



5. Being so tired.

Usually it isn't a good thing to be so tired that you literally fall in to bed at the end of the day. Oh but it is. It is glorious. Sometimes I go through stages of not being able to sleep. This week I've been so tired, that I sleep so well that I hardly roll over in my sleep. This is good for my energy levels. It's not so good for my circulation. I often wake up with lead arms. It's still so worth it. 



4. Making new Friends.

I love people. I love making new Friends. I found that a very sweet girl is in two of my three classes. We noticed each other in one of the classes, and swapped details. It's great to have a study partner, sounding board and  Friend.




3.Using my Brain, again.

It's so awesome and powerful to be able to engage my noggin' in learning. It's almost like that feeling when you go to the Gym or for a run for the first time after a long break. It hurts and is hard but man does it feel good.




2. Catching up.

I was lucky enough to catch up with two lovely ladies that I hadn't seen in months and months. It was so nice to be able to pop up to the 5th floor to see Hannie, and txt Lucy out of the blue and schedule a lunch catch up. Also Erica works and studies in town, so yesterday when we both had half an hour spare we had a speed-chat. Like a speed-date. Except we already know each other and aren't looking for love. It's awesome!




1. Visiting 'Archives New Zealand'

Yesterday, as a part of my Treaty of Waitangi paper we visited the Archives. I got to see The Treaty of Waitangi with my own eyes. I found it to be quite emotional. It was both empowering and devastating, but I'm lucky I got the opportunity.







What are some highlights from your week?


Tuesday, 13 July 2010

"The way you're bathed in light, reminds me of that night"

A few nights ago, I had a really sad evening. I switched on the Computer, and flicked through all my usual haunts. I got to Stuff and that's when I saw it. A Dolphin had washed up on a beach. That Dolphin was most probably Moko. Many people knew Moko to be a super friendly social & mischievous character. He would crave human affection. In the summer he would bask in the population of Mahia Beach, playing with Swimmers, stealing boogie boards and accompanying Kayaks. When I was in Mahia in the Summer of early 2009, a Fisherman told me about his encounters with Moko. The Fisherman was not a huge Moko fan as, Moko would like to play tricks on the Fisherman when he went to collect his catch from his Cray Pots. Moko would see the Fisherman's boat and head straight over to where he had left his Pots. Just before the fisherman could hoist the Cray Pots up to the surface, Moko would grab the Cray Pot, and pull it back down. This was not only an annoying ritual for the Fisherman, it was also costly, because as Moko submerged the Pots deeper, many of the Crayfish were released back in to the Ocean.

Although Moko was cheeky, he was also a loving spirit.

Moko's once guided two pygmy sperm whales out to sea when they almost beached themselves at Mahia.



So why am I so saddened by the passing of a Dolphin? Well I've briefly blogged about this before (and here), but I've never gone in to great detail about my personal experience with Moko. As soon as I read the news that he had died, I knew I wanted to Blog about it, and wondered why I hadn't done so earlier.

So here it is...





In early 2009 Brads Parents, Sisters, Brad & I went on a family holiday to Mahia. We stayed in a Holiday Home and spent the week eating ice-cream, swimming, sunning and fishing. It was a great Holiday. Brads Sister Laura is quite "Dolphin-Keen" and she had told me of a friendly Dolphin Moko, who often swam around the Bay.

On our first afternoon at Mahia, we encountered Moko down at the Main beach. There were swarms of people all trying to get close to Moko. I got to touch him ever so slightly. Laura managed to get a good hand to him.

The next day we headed in to Wairoa, the closest Town base to the beach. We went to the $2 shop and bought things to lure Moko in to our direction. Things such as Beach Balls Noodles and other floating devices. We became Dolphin obsessed. After many, many sightings and a good few days, the novelty had almost worn off. By this time, we were nearing the end of our Holiday. It was Mine & Brad's last night in Mahia. Laura & Brad's other sister Bex had left for home, and his Parent's planned to leave a few nights after us.



After dinner on our last night at the beach Brads Parents accompanied us down to the beach for a walk. The sun was setting and although there was a chilly breeze it was fairly warm still. As we made our way further and further down the Beach, we could make out to Figures in the ocean playing around. Two guys were in the water, knee deep, holding a paddle in the air for Moko the Dolphin to try and reach. We stood in awe. How amazing. We kept telling each other over and over how amazing it all was, and how it was a once in a lifetime opportunity. After a few minutes, I said "Stuff this, I'm going in." Brad's Dad politely said he would turn around and not look, if I wanted to take my shorts off and go in my gruts. I said that would have been a god idea if I wasn't wearing white cotton briefs. So I rolled up my denims and in I went. I looked over my shoulder, and both Brad & his Mum were transforming their own outfits in to swimwear.

After a power struggle with the two men, we finally got close enough to touch Moko. And after a very very short time a large pregnant Woman came running down the beach. She was yelling that it was her Boat paddle and that Moko had held it hostage for the last four hours. The boys gave it back to the woman, and left the water, leaving us three alone with Moko.

Moko swam at us, nudging us to pet him and be playful with him. Just as a dog or cat rubs against you when they want attention, Moko did the same. And he loved the human affection. He felt to soft and squishy, but silky, not slimy like I had imagined. His skin felt like wetsuit material. His eyes were happy and bright and his tail was swift and very, very strong.



I left the water feeling so happy and alive. I felt as though anything were possible in that moment.

Although my experience with Moko made me feel happy and lucky, part of me was also quite sad. I knew that it was in fact a once in a lifetime experience and the chances of it happening again were very, very slim to none. I hoped that there would always be people around to love and care for Moko - even in the winter months.

Moko the Dolphin.

I hope that his spirit is at rest and he can rest contently knowing that he brought so much joy to so many people - me included.

Thursday, 8 July 2010

"Strawberry, Blueberry, Cherry Black, You're my..."




Lately in my house hold everyone seems to have gone Yoghurt mad. If such an obsession even exists? There were literally 24 tubs of yoghurt in our fridge last week. There are only four of us.


So to follow suit here are my Top Five Favourite Yoghurt Products.





5. Blueberry Creme Fraiche Yoghurt. I can't remember who made this but they were served individually in these shallow large square shaped containers. They were light in texture, although thick at the same time. I loved these during the summer months.





4. Calci Yum: Dairy Food. These remind me of my childhood. I eat one of the Chocolate ones when I need a Choc fix but don't want to feel guilty afterwards. These puppies are 99% fat free and have the Heart Foundation Tick. In my world that means they are a-okay to eat. My only complaint is that they've gotten rid of the Caramel flavour and replaced it with a Milk Chocolate which is Naff.





3. Swiss Maid: Fruit Corners. These don't exist anymore, because if they did, they'd probably be number one. They were 60% natural yoghurt and 40% Fruit, in separate corner containers. You could rip the foil off the top and if you were swift enough fold the fruit corner over so the fruit slid on top of the plain section. The fruit topping kind of tasted like the topping on a Cheesecake. Do you remember them?





2. Fresh'n'Fruity: Autumn Duet. I Love the mix of Pears and Raspberries. It's not too sweet not too sour. Yum. Plus these were my Grandads favourite.





1. Puhoi Valley: Creamy Yoghurt's. These are super thick creamy plain yoghurt's topped with a real fruit layer of Blackcurrant & Boysenberries, Apricot & Honey or Strawberries. They are amazing.





Does your Family or Household have any weird eating patterns at the moment?



P.S Who can finish the lyric title?

Wednesday, 7 July 2010

"Your eyes are full, Full of the future of us"

Over the past month there has been a lot of talk of Weddings & Marriage. A few of my friends voiced their concerns on whether their relationships will ever get to the knot-tying stage. A few friends talked about wondering if they will ever find the right person to Marry. Some Family members discussed their plan-to-get-engaged-plans. And then there's Brad & I. We talk about Marriage all the time. It's not something we're afraid to talk about. We share our hopes & dreams for our Wedding, Marriage and future together. But it's not something that we're thinking about now. There are so many things we want to do first. And that is fine by us. Which is why the situation that I'm about to re-tell came as such a surprise. It's not what you're thinking Mariah, so breathe Woman. 



Last week I had an encounter of sorts with a young lady who was getting Married. At first she seemed lovely and kind and oh-so-in-love with her Hubby to be. After a few hours of high intensity problem solving, on a day where just about anything and everything could and would go wrong - she cracked. She cracked like Gretchen Weiners.

She launched a personal attack on my intelligence and competency over something that was completely out of my control.

At the end of the day I was angry and hurt. I had literally put six and a half hours of non-stop work in to what she wanted. No toilet breaks. No lunch time. No time for even jamming a Mandarin down my throat. Nothing.

I was on the verge of launching in to a Gretchen-esque tirade myself.

Instead I just simmered. I simmered all the way home, all through the night and well in to the next day.



When I get in such a mood, the problem spreads. I lose all ability to contain the anger regarding just the one issue, and let the negativity drown my sensibility. I had gone beyond being angry about just the "cracking" and started spewing about how the whole situation was totally unfair.

I found it to be unfair, that someone who could use such hurtful, unkind words against someone who was trying to help, was lucky enough to be getting Married. Was I jealous? What was there to be jealous of?



After much deliberation I've realised that getting Married or being Married has nothing to do with Luck.

Being Engaged, or getting Married doesn't make a couple more Lucky, or more in Love than any another Couple who Love each other. In my un-Married opinion a Marriage doesn't make a Relationship. A Relationship makes a Marriage.

Any two people can enter in to the sanctity of Marriage. The number of Couples that have a happy & healthy Marriage are quite different I'm sure.

I mean, I'm no expert, I could be wrong. One day I'll know for sure. What do you think?



So whilst I believe that Marriage is a beautiful thing, and a higher sense of commitment than just being in a Relationship, I believe that Luck is not defined by a beautiful dress, flowers & diamond rings. The Luck is in finding the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. And if I believe this to be true, and I know that in due course it will be our turn, then I can count myself one very lucky Girl...



...And so can you (you know who you are.)

Monday, 5 July 2010

"This is madness" "Madness? This. Is. Zumba!"

I am sick. Brad somehow contracted a Flu, and gladly passed it on to me. Today as I was lying in bed, trying to sleep off my ailments, I couldn't help but think about how gutted I was to be sick. I had just got in to an awesome routine by going to the Gym every day. Enter Flu = Broken routine.

In my Codral induced consciousness, I was reminded of a scenario which took place a few weeks ago, which I had forgotten to share.

A few weeks ago, Erica & her Cherub, and myself ventured down to MK's house in Paekakariki. We had Lemon-pepper Fries & a Chicken, Bacon, Mango & Brie Pizza for lunch. So Good!

After lunch, a natter, a bit of a rest and a descent beach walk we found ourselves slumped on the couch back at MK's house.



Erica looked up at the vast CD & DVD collection on the wall. "Oh, I forgot you have Zumba!"

As soon as the words came out of her mouth I knew embarrassment and physical pain were due to follow.

"Let's put it on so I can see what it's like" Erica said excitedly.

Mk put the disc in to the DVD player. She gave me a knowing look.

Erica piped up again, "Well it's on  - so we may as well give it a go!"



Before I knew it we were all on our feet, attempting to replicate the sense of co-ordination, we saw on the screen. And I say attempt intentionally. For fifteen whole minutes. We were in fits of laughter the entire time. When you see Zumba, it looks, funky, sexy & cool. When you we do Zumba we look un-co, un-stable and daggy.

I was hoping one of the other girls would pull pin on this Zumba madness.

Then MK said between heavy breathes "Dad, will be home soon..."

Erica interjected, "We better stop now, so he doesn't walk in and see this." As she said the word "this" she did a ghetto hand movement, meaning us and our daggy-ness.



Thank goodness. I am all for exercising but the Zumba madness might have to wait a while. Until I am either a little fitter or a Latin dance goddess. Either way - it may be some time.

Friday, 2 July 2010

"Free Four"

Tonight I've been looking at my own Blog. A lot.

No I'm not trying to up my Stats on Analytics. I am adoring my new Favicon. My FREE Favicon!

The beautiful Angela over at Striking Keys, selected me as her Week Four Winner. I love my new Favicon! It's so adorable. Ange made a perfect Favicon for my Blog - I Love it. Infact if I was a Geek Goddess and possesed the skills to create one for myself - I would have created the same image. She even created amazing looking instructions - complete with screen shots to aid me in the installation process. I am so lucky.

Thank you so much Ange! I am brewing ideas for a Thankyou offering. You're amazing!



In case you are unaware of what a Favicon is, you can read about it here. I have also prepared a diagram.






Thursday, 1 July 2010

"Māu anō e rapu he Oranga"




The last few weeks have seen so many changes for people that I am close to & love. It's been a rough couple of weeks for many - to say the least. Most of these people have great attitudes and zest for life. Sometimes though, Life throws you a curve ball and asks you to make a tricky decision. Making a decision that effects or alters the person you are is down right courageous. Today I'm lining up Five Foxy Ladies that I am most PROUD of this week. Well - always, but particularly this week.





5. Serenity


The last year for you has been a Roller-Coaster ride. You admit & accept your part in the chaos, for which I am extremely proud of you. It is hard to own up to your mistakes, accept help and work your way out of a mess. And you've done it with your head held high. You have made great decisions on the past six months. These decisions were not only good choices for yourself, but the best for your partner and beautiful daughter too. I'm so proud of you, for finally seeing the potential in yourself, that I've been seeing for the past Nine years.





4. Erica


Everything you do, you do for your family. Their safety, care & well-being is more important than anything else in the world to you. You are the closest Being to Super-Woman, that I've ever met. And you manage to do it all, looking smokin' hot & with a smile on your face. You manage to own a house, run a household (that's always tidy), maintain a strong loving relationship with your Man, Study, Work, always make time for your extended family, always have time for your friends all the while never ever compromising on the upbringing of your gorgeous baby girl. How do you do it Girlfriend? I know yesterday must have been hard for you. It just proves my point. You will go to the end of the earth to make sure your family is taken care of in every single way. You are amazing.  





3. Ashley


It's been a rough few weeks for you Ash, I know. In fact it hasn't been the easiest year has it?


I know at times it can be tough but you live and you learn Doll.


I'm so proud that you have learnt something that I think to be one of life's most valuable lessons: Live each day for those that you love, but never forget to live it for yourself too. The happier & healthier you are, the better equipped you are to Love those around you. Never lose what makes you - you. You're more courageous than you give yourself credit for and I am so proud of the commitment you have made to yourself this week. You Go Girl!





2. Mum


Oh Marja. It has been an interesting few weeks hasn't it? A lot has been happening. You are one of the strongest Women I know. I know you said in your blog that you feel as if the light at the end of the tunnel, was just another train coming the other way. It may feel like it some days, but it isn't another train. It's just a crack in the wall of the tunnel. The journey is longer than we had thought, but the end of the tunnel is near.





1. MK.


Out of all these ladies, this week has probably been the hardest for you. Not unlike others you've had you reflect on the choices of your past, and have courageously starting carving out a new path for your future. I couldn't be more proud of you. You have embarked on a journey that at times, you know will be tricky. That takes guts, but I'm so proud you've made that decision. Although you have to carve the path out for yourself, I will be beside you the entire walk, encouraging you and telling you how proud you make me